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Vaughan Roberts: Same-Sex Attraction

 
Tim Thornborough | 28 Sep 2012

In an interview with Julian Hardyman published in the British newspaper Evangelicals Now in September 2012, well-known author and evangelical leader Vaughan Roberts described his long-term struggles with same-sex attraction.

The very honest and personal interview explains how Vaughan views this as a temptation to be resisted and does not seek to self-identify as homosexual or gay.

Vaughan, who is the minister of St Ebbe's Anglican church in Oxford, published a book called Battles Christians Face, which included a chapter on homosexuality. In a revised edition published in 2012, he said in the introduction that he had struggled with all eight temptations in the book.

Julian: "Does the disclosure that same-sex attraction is one of your personal battles mean you are defining yourself as a homosexual?"

Vaughan: "No, it doesn’t. It’s important to reiterate that I have acknowledged a struggle in all eight of the areas the book covers and not just in one. The brokenness of the fallen world afflicts us all in various ways. We will be conscious of different battles to varying degrees at different moments of a day and in different seasons of our lives. No one battleof the many we face, however stronglydefines us, but our identity as Christians flows rather from our relationship with Christ.

"All of us are sinners, and sexual sinners. But, if we have turned to Christ, we are new creations, redeemed from slavery to sin through our union with Christ in his death and raised with him by the Spirit to a new life of holiness, while we wait for a glorious future in his presence when he returns. These awesome realities define me and direct me to the kind of life I should live. In acknowledging that I know something of all eight battles covered in my book, therefore, I’m not making a revelation about my fundamental identity, other than that, like all Christians, I am a sinner saved by grace, called to live in the brokenness of a fallen world until Christ returns and brings all our battles to an end."

We applaud and support Vaughan's courage for making known this personal struggle, which will undoubtedly help other believers who struggle with the same issues. It is often a lonely battle to stay faithful to Christ and the Scriptures when there are many voices urging us to see these desires in a different way. But we also support Vaughan in the way he is using this opportunity to engage directly with this very live debate in the church and to encourage believers to welcome those who similarly wrestle with this temptation.

Vaughan has already become the target for criticism on some blogs for the stance he has taken. Please join with us at The Good Book Company in supporting, praying for and honouring Vaughan for his leadership in this area. And join us in encouraging our churches to offer the good news of gospel forgiveness and love to those who struggle with this issue and any others.

Sarah Ballingal

11:01 PM AEDT on January 8th
It's great to read this very honest interview and I really admire Vaughan for speaking about his sexual desires in this way. I only hope for his sake that this issue doesn't overtake everything else in his life and ministry, and that he isn't forced to be a 'poster boy' for the evangelical church's Biblical stance on homosexuality. Hopefully, through this interview more people in his position will feel able to speak more openly about their struggles and find the church ready and willing to love and support them. The church needs to be more honest in all sorts of areas, not just sexual orientation, but sadly, this is the issue that seems to attract more interest than most.

James Fletcher

11:01 PM AEDT on January 8th
Vaughan is an inspiration to us all. I consider myself extremely fortunate and blessed to be able to call Vaughan a personal friend and most importantly a brother in Christ. I've known Vaughan since he started at St Ebbe's as a curate and his identity has always been as a saved sinner through the grace of God via Christ's death on the cross, and that's the only identity that matters for any Christian.

Tim Thornborough

11:01 PM AEDT on January 8th
Thanks for your comment Sarah. We are planning to run a number of blog posts early next week to tease out some of the issues involved. Vaughan, again, led the way on this in the interview, stating that sexual temptation was just one of the eight he was prone to. And although it is viewed as more spectacular or noteworthy than, say, materialism or gossip, for example, I suspect that our enemy has won a minor victory over us by getting us to grade sins like this. The end result is that we deplore one temptation, while we wink at others that are equally abhorrent in the Lord's eyes.

Watch this space!

Vanessa Baron

11:01 PM AEDT on January 8th
I think that Vaughan has been immensely courageous to speak as openly as he has done and I hope very much that his example will be both an encouragement and inspiration to others. I fear though that he will be villified by many and expected by others to espouse their agenda. He will need our prayers and support over the next few months.

Tim Thornborough

Tim Thornborough is the founder and Publishing Director of The Good Book Company. He is series editor of Explore Bible-reading notes, the author of The Very Best Bible Stories series, and has contributed to many books published by The Good Book Company and others. Tim is married to Kathy, and they have three adult daughters.